The Secret of My Success 💖💖💖

 The Secret of My Success 💖💖💖



Just as there is a strong woman behind a strong man, there is a strong man behind a strong woman. And if it weren't for this strong man behind me, you might not see this so-called Dr Alima woman today. So, the secret of my success is my husband, father of my children, father of my success and his name is Nagarraas Muhammad.


We got married when I was a 7th grade student at a very young age and he not only looked at my ability, interest and love for education but also provided me with all the support I needed to study after marriage. The greatest sacrifice he made was to endure all the pressures from his community and family. I never heard of this pressure or praised it. Instead, he was very anxious to make me stronger in my studies, to study well, and not to fall below my previous level.


After many hardships and six years of struggle, I finished grade 12 and had two children. Again, he left our children with him to continue my education away from home and sent me to university as a mother and father. When I went to university, I never heard the pressure of all kinds of things (a woman shouldn't go that far; she can't be your wife again, etc.). Although the worries and thoughts of being away from my children and home and the pressures of various quarters disturbed me, I stuck to my goals and finished my studies with good grades and returned to my home and life.


Things are not like today; it's not as easy as it seems now, man! In those days... in those days when educating one's own wife let alone one's own daughters was a big problem... a man sent his wife to school (while he was busy with other work), the mother getting his parents to finish her education from 7th grade and get her to where she is now... you might think it's a narrative or a novel. But, it is a true story. In fact, he's less of a "great role model for the men of the world."


It didn't stop there. The walk continued. After completing my undergraduate degree at the University of Bahrain, I completed my Master’s degree at the University of Finland. After a three-year stay, I entered the same University of Finland for my Third Degree and studied away from my family and home for six years. It is not difficult to imagine the patience of the husband.


We both made promises to each other. He will educate me, and we promised to live together wherever I went and how much I learned. We both kept our promises and with the help of our Lord we have lived together to this day. We have seen and spent many things together in our lives. Most importantly, we have raised the most precious, unchanged millions of possessions with four children. Both of our children, whom I had while in high school, have completed university education.


If I could say with my mouth full that my husband is the best husband in the world, it would be less. Many men can learn a lesson from this. I am living my marriage without breaking my promise. Furthermore, I think it is a good example for those of you who are afraid to trust women and doubt that if they get better than us, they will leave us. I would like to point out that honesty, perseverance and hard work are essential for human success. Time management and self confidence are very important. All of this can only be directed if we have a vision and act with purpose. Otherwise it's water in the table; but we will fall where they fall.


Overall, the secret of my success is who and the sacrifices my husband made in my educational process cannot be described in words. If we get the day, one day we will share my life and education story, my achievements and things that can be educational for many people 💖💖💖


Thanks for reading 💖💖💖

Good luck, good luck, come back 💖💖💖

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